Goodbye Is Harder Than I Remember


Six years ago I made a decision that equal parts changed & saved my life. Looking back, I can’t imagine any other choice, or path that I could have walked. We sat in our shared dorm room on graduation weekend – the theses had been turned in and all that was left was accepting our […]

We Broke Up & It’s Cool (Kind Of)


This is a hard post to write, because admitting true vulnerability is actually quite hard for me. This isn’t the kind of entry that will have a punch line, be sparkled with wit, or end with positivity or a cute takeaway. I am writing today because my heart is broken, and I am sharing this with […]

A Letter To Myself, Part Duex


Almost a year ago, at the dawn of my reemergence into the great Beehive State – I wrote a blog entry that was entitled: “An Open Letter to Myself.” In this letter I not only offered up advice to yours truly that I’m sure as shit I didn’t take; but I also challenged myself about […]

On Getting A Little Muddy


Sometimes we all get stuck in the mud, and after today – I was reminded, that it’s okay. Getting stuck in the mud gives us the opportunity to get out of the mud. Yes, I am in the midst of using a very cliché metaphor in which to demonstrate a life lesson. I woke up […]

This Is My Life


Folks, the other night shit got weird. Remember my recent blog, “What is my life?” Well, although I was convinced there would be some sort of shift with a new year at bay, don’t worry – my existence continues to be full of awkward and unfortunate moments on a daily basis. Case and point – […]

What IS This Life?


I always thought that if I had a mantra for my life at the age of twenty-seven, it would be something oddly vague but very wise like “Presence is the most important ‘present’ of all,” or “Cause if at first you don’t succeed (first you don’t succeed), Dust yourself off, and try again – You […]